A By-product
Interesting thing about living life to a level of true self-actualization. You can't get there from here without recognizing the difference between what a goal is and what a by-product is. There's a huge gap between the two and if you fall into the gap you will fall into failure.
A goal is a destination...an outcome...a desired result. Something we say we want to achieve as a desired state in our life. To achieve your goals requires a lot of things but most of all it requires you to do everything necessary. Call it following a plan of action steps...whatever. Goals don't happen they are achieved step-by-step.
A by-product, on the other hand, is totally different from a goal. A by-product is an off-shoot of something. It happens because other things happen. So, a by-product is the outcome of an outcome.
Best example I can give to illustrate the contrast between a goal and by-product is through something Eleanor Roosevelt said. "Happiness is not a goal; it is a by-product."
So, don't try to be happy. Go out and achieve the things that make you happy.



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